Fairness - The Commentary

Two examples of how in this day and political climate we need short, bumper-sticker size slogans to get our messages across hit me this past weekend. Today’s reality, whether we like it or not, is that people are not reading long and extended discussions with nuanced “there’s this, and then there’s that” arguments in a society where religionists and one of the political parties have fully embraced the tactic that words are less to inform and more a means to excite, scare, and anger people. The first example is what struck me at the local “No Kings’ rally I attended where people held signs up along a busy suburban-like thoroughfare. The busyness of those who drove by and had no time to stop and read lengthy lists of why someone was out there, even if they honked in support, was instructive. It meant that the short and sweet and more provocative signs were the ones that got a message across. Keeping it simple reached more people even if one would like them to take the time to know more a...

Just look at her. There’s something so free about the girl on the playground who hasn’t gotten the message that she should act like a “little lady.” The playground is her place to soar, to dream of flying, driving a race car, climbing mountains, becoming a great ice hockey or soccer star, or setting new records on the basketball court. She can get dirty, tear her jeans, scrape her elbows and shins, hang upside down forever, shout and laugh uncontrollably, and make any sound from any body part that she wants. For a time in her life, there are no limits placed on her just because she’s a girl. She thinks of her body in terms of how it functions to accomplish her many dreams, not as an object judged by others. She couldn’t care less about how she looks and what she wears as long as it helps her to run fast and jump high or do whatever else she wants to do. She might be called a “tomboy,” but that’s not so bad in our culture. Our society’s sexism actually protects her for a while. A “girly...