Does Our Lucrative Sports Culture Take Away a Boy’s Humanity?
What a delight to learn that my 14-year-old grandson and a bunch of his friends had organized their own recreational league basketball team that includes no adult coach and no practices. It’s meant purely to have plain old fun without the pressure that “adult” expectations impose. Even the team name they chose has no “adult” meaning - like the already passé “6,7.” Their games aren’t pretty by “organized sports” standards, but these boys are sure enjoying a freedom from all that. It reminded me of their childhood play and a real nostalgia not to give “play” up no matter how “grownup” these boys were supposed act. If you were a boy, you remember that at some point play ground culture became sports culture. If you were able to enjoy the first, that didn’t always mean you could succeed at the second. Play morphed into competition as early as society could get us to internalize the idea that we were vying with other boys for affirmation and the emblem of “manhood.” The boys who were “real b...